Dinner Ideas… For the “Free Pouring” cook..

Hello readers! Happy Better New Year to you all! I pray everyone had a pleasantly blessed ending of 2015! I sure did… That will be shared with you all in another post.. What exactly made the end of my 2015 a blessing to me. 😉 

So, my first blog of 2016 would be about food.. Lol! Well, what can I say I love to cook & eat and it’s even more awesome when it’s healthy and the whole family enjoys it! Score! 🙂 

Although I do enjoy cooking & would love to share a lot more meals or deserts that I prepare. I am not the best at measuring ingredients. I am more of what I’ve heard them say on the cooking shows, a “free pouring” kind of cook. That makes it a little difficult to share recipes, unless I’m sharing the recipe with another free pouring cook!
Since I will never really know who reads my posts and what kind of cook they are.. This year I am going to step outside the box and share things anyway! 

Turkey Sausage and Kale Soup Recipe

Turkey Sausage Kale SoupIngredients needed:
Extra Virgin Olive Oil 2-4 TBS
1lb of Sausage of your choice cut into 1/4 inch slices (I used Butter Ball Hardwood Smoked Turkey Sausage)
3-4 Potatoes Diced – Yukon Gold, Red or Regular Potatoes (I used regular potatoes because that is what I had already, but will try red potatoes next time and maybe even try using sweet potatoes)
Chopped Onion – Amount depends on what you like
Kale – 1 Bushel fresh or 8oz bag of triple pre-washed (add more if you like)
Garlic Minced 2-4 Cloves – Amount according to what you like. You can use fresh cloves or I like to use the Spice World Minced Garlic in Olive Oil  (1/2tsp = approx 1 clove)
1 32oz Chicken Broth (I use the lower sodium) I added 1-2 cups water to make more soup
1 Can 15.5oz Cannellini Beans (White Kidney Beans) or you can use: Navy Beans, Garbanzo Beans or Chickpeas, rinsed and drained
1 Can 14.5oz diced tomatoes or about 2-3 whole tomatoes diced
Salt and Pepper or Mrs. Dash to taste
Of course anything that is in a can, by all means use fresh if you like. Just be sure to properly prep it for the recipe.

Directions:
In a large pot or dutch oven over medium-low heat, cook the sausage, potatoes and onions in Olive Oil for about 5 minutes or until sausage is heated thoroughly, stiring occasionally. Add Kale, cover and cook for about 3-5 minutes or until Kale is wilted. Add garlic & cook a few minutes longer.

Add the remaining ingredients. Bring to a boil. Reduce the heat, cover and simmer for about 10-15 minutes or until potatoes are tender. Season to taste with salt and pepper or Mrs. Dash.
I garnished my bowl with some avacado slices… Yum!
Turkey Sausage Kale Soup Avacado
You can enjoy this alone or serve with cornbread or biscuits!
Of course you can double or triple up on this recipe and it’s easier to do if you are a free pouring kind of cook! Lol! 😉

Thanks for reading! Please leave a comment below if you are going to try it out or have already tried it! Share your alterations! Feedback is always welcomed here! Be sure to follow & subscribe to my blog for future posts!

If nobody else told you today, I love you! Be blessed! ❤

 

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Manitoba Harvest ‘Hemp Hearts’ Review & Giveaway!!

Hello readers, thank you for stopping by! Today is a Tasty Tuesday Try your luck Giveaway post! #TryItTuesday
I will be sharing a review, a tasty recipe & other tasty ideas using Manitoba Harvest Hemp Hearts.

What are Hemp Hearts & how are they beneficial to us you may ask…

Hemp hearts are raw shelled hemp seeds. Complete vegetarian protein, all natural, whole-food made from ONE ingredient. It has a slightly nutty taste, similar to a sunflower seed or pine nut. I personally think it has a smokey nutty flavor. 🙂 There’s no need to cook Hemp Hearts since they are ready to eat straight out of the bag, making them easy to incorporate into your meal planning. Hemp Hearts come in Natural or Organic in a variety of sizes. The Natural comes in bags of 2oz, 8oz, 1lb & 5lbs or a box of singles of .9oz packs. The Organic comes in bags of 7oz, 12oz, & 5lbs. You can purchase Hemp Hearts from the website www.manitobaharvest.com or in your local Health Food Stores like Sprouts or Whole Foods. Prices range from $2.99 up to $70.
The 2oz bag of Natural Hemp Hearts has 330 calories, 230 calories from fat with 25 grams total fat. Per 30 grams (2 Heaping Tablespoons) serving, Hemp Hearts contain 10 grams of plant-based protein and 10 grams of omega 3 & 6. They also contain 181mg Magnesium per 30 grams serving. Hemp Hearts have more protein and omegas & less carbs than the same serving of chia or flax.

Just some FYI details ~ Manitoba Harvest products are made on-site at their hemp-dedicated facility, so they control how their products are made. Hemp Hearts & all Manitoba Harvest Hemp food products are Non-GMO Project Verified. Manitoba Harvest Hemp Foods are kosher under the supervision of the Kashruth Division of the Orthodox Union. Manitoba Harvest Hemp Foods’ organic products are certified by Pro-Cert and are marked with the following logos:

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I recieved a 2 oz. bag of the Natural Hemp Hearts to try it out for this review and I am very impressed with this product. It is definitely something I will purchase to use regularly. Especially since it has been #kidtested #kidapproved and #motherapproved in our house! 🙂 #thumbsup

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I tried the Hemp Hearts in a few different ways and was pleased with every single one. As you can see in the picture above: I sprinkled the Hemp Hearts on top of Peanut Butter spread on a Thomas’ Limited Edition Apple Pie English Muffin. The Hemp Hearts gave the flavor a little twist with its smokey peanuty taste.. My 8yr old daughter really liked it too! One day I had came home with a yogurt & fruit parfait topped with granola & added some Hemp Hearts on top of all that & it was delish! 😉

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I saved the best pic for last… A recipe I found on the Manitoba Harvest website for Honey Hemp Cream of Wheat
This recipe was not only quick and easy with minimal ingredients but it was delicious and heart warming… Great for a cool fall morning or cold winter morning for breakfast or anytime! 🙂 Recipe below…(Or click on recipe name above)

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Ingredients:
4 tbsp cream of wheat
3 tbsp Hemp Hearts
2 tbsp honey (we like honey bunny organic clover honey)
1 1/2 cup coconut or almond milk (I used Almond Milk)
Top with extra honey and Hemp Hearts

Directions:
Warm milk on stove, add cream of wheat, Hemp Hearts and honey. Whisk frequently until desired thickness is achieved.

Yield: 1 serving ~ ENJOY!

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Random post… Forgiveness.

First of all… Thank God for waking me up this morning and making it possible for me to be able to type this post!!!

Happy Healthy Motivational Monday!!!

I just wanted to share how amazing life is or can be… Yesterday at Church, we had a guest speaker who prayed over everone. Even mentioned some specific prayer requests people may have shouted out. One of them was.. Forgiveness.

I personally struggle with full forgiveness… But I am working extremely hard on it every day!!! I know that without forgiveness my blessings can be blocked or limited (I don’t want that blockage!). I can feel that I am working on it. It falls in the category of me in general working on me, which I am doing a LOT of lately. Things people notice about me and mention to me or to someone else is general proof of me working on me.

Self improvement… Progress 😉

I am learning the hard way to not ignore my dreams… It only takes one time for me to miss out on something all because I ignored it in my dream… Never again!!! Lesson learned!!! I had a dream that woke me up about 4am this morning… All I could do was cry.. It wasn’t a nightmare or anything scary.. It was God telling me to forgive someone.. The individual was as plain & clear as if sitting next to me in my dream.. The flesh part of me immediate thought was to beat & stomp the individual to a human pulp. But the spiritual, more God-like side of me, told me to just sit & listen… (Which I was in my dream but for some reason was trying to fight it to be un-Godly). My tears were because I have spent so much time fighting against God and his expectations. Unfortunately, it’s taken a potentially almost life threatening reality check for me to start listening…

Mark 11:25-26 ~ 25 “And whenever you stand praying, if you have anything against anyone, forgive him, that your Father in heaven may also forgive you your trespasses. 26 But if you do not forgive, neither will your Father in heaven forgive your trespasses.”

So, my conclusion to this post is… Prayer & anointing oil works!!!  Forgiveness & good supportive people in your life also help when it comes to forgiveness… Don’t ignore your dreams, no matter how big or small the information is in the dream.. Love yourself enough to forgive others for doing you wrong. Then, let go & let God deal with them!

That is all… For now.. Thanks for reading! I hope this inspires someone… Please share!

#PrayForMe

A lil snippet from my 5 Day Challenge… Working on Me.. Progress.

5 Days to Sweet & Salty Speech ~ By: Karen Ehman

A wound grows worse with a lack of truth. Sin, like bacteria, grows in dark, damp places. The Bible declares, “For everyone who does wicked things hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his works should be exposed.” John 3:20. For a “sin-fection”, be sure to sprinkle on a salty confession and the light of God’s own Son. Jesus is the only way we can have forgiveness.

Prayer for today:

“Dear Heavenly Father, please let me admit when I am wrong. Remind me that the truth will set me free. Let me always make decisions of integrity, but if I don’t, allow me confess my sin immediately so that my heart can be clean again. Let me add the salty words of confession to my daily spiritual vocabulary. Save me from the debilitating infection of multiple sins by allowing me to remember to constantly stay in your light. Help me to daily speak the truth and always look to you to make good decisions in the first place. In Jesus’ Name – Amen.”

That is all for now… Thanks for reading.. If you would like to do the 5 Day Challenge just click here. >>> Freebies from Karen!

Be blessed!

3HD

Just because… A pre-review of Keep It Shut..

As I come to the end of reading Keep It Shut by Karen Ehman (<<<Purchased on Amazon.. Click the link to the left.) I have so many things going through my head.

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Mostly good things of course! You know that feeling after reading a book that makes you REALLY think about certain things. This book in particular really makes you think back & look at your current ways of speaking to people, listening to people and looking at people whether it be in person, over the phone, in a text, video chat or online. Even better, this book helps you look at all of those things from a biblical & spiritual point of view. I most definitely know and realize even more now, that I am work in progress in this particular area of my life. I’ve noticed that, just like the Author, Karen Ehman I have a not so good habit of losing my cool with my family, but somehow manage to keep calm when I interact with others.YIKES! Yeah, I’m not so proud of that one… 😦

The book of Proverbs describes a woman who is praised not only for what she does, but more importantly for who she is — specifically, how she interacts with people: “She opens her mouth with wisdom, and the teaching of kindness is on her tongue” (Proverbs 31:26 ESV)

I must agree with the feedback comment on the cover of the book from Lysa Terkeurst which says, “This book is funny, honest, and tackles the hard subjects of gossip, speaking the truth in love, and the power of our words from a biblical standpoint.” This description hits the nail on the head! 😉

I like the way she incorporates her real life scenarios in the book. She definitely kept it real with those! I must say one of my favorite quotes that came from one of her real life scenarios is when her son (who she refers to as the man-cub) tells her, “Hang on a second. I gotta die.” When he said those words to her, they spoke to her soul. As I read how they spoke to her soul… She spoke to my soul. Just as she put it in the book… Before we react.. Hurl a harsh word.. Pass judgement or speak unkindly to our spouse or snap on our children.. Perhaps we need to just take a deep breath and say,

“Hang on a second. I gotta die.”

Die to self. Die to flesh. Die to my “rights” that too often result in my wrongs. Yes, Paul said it best — “I die daily” (1 Corinthians 15:31 KJV) Then, Karen asks… Does this mean in everything? Consider Jesus’ statement, “Greater love has no one than this: to lay down one’s life for one’s friends” (John 15:13) Then she mentions her initial response of all the imaginable dramatic ways that could actually happen. All of her thoughts were pretty scary but realistic.. I can relate to all that she said. But, um.. I’m not going to mention too much more of this section of the book.. I believe this is a must read book for everyone with sight and a voice!

This is just a brief pre-review of this book… I will be speaking more of this book in my blog in the near future.. I will also be doing a Periscope review of the book. So, go follow if you aren’t already following @3HDeeFitness & on Instagram also!

Think about it… Sometimes we all just need to..

Take a deep breath, a pause that centers your heart, snaps your soul to attention, and gently declare… “Hang on a second. I gotta die.”

I am looking forward to doing my full review on the book & can’t wait to share my feedback with Karen Ehman, who is actually active on social media. She actually responds to posts or comments! Check her out on the following links>>>> Karen Ehman on Facebook / Instagram / Twitter / Pinterest

I hope you enjoyed my pre-review of this book. Thank you so much for reading!

Until next time… God bless!

Helene

Mom, what’s for dinner???

Between the husband and the child(ren).. If mothers and wives got paid for every time they heard that question, we would have a pretty nice savings account.. $$$

Mom, what’s for dinner?!? 

If your house hold is anything like mine, dinner preparing can easily get boring for the whole family if you have a picky eater or anyone with food allergies. The one thing I am grateful for about my family is the will eat leftovers. I have heard some stories from women who say their significant other or their child(ren) refuse to eat leftovers. That just blows my mind! Growing up as a child with my two older sisters (and a step brother for a little while) we were to eat whatever was served. If we didn’t like it or didn’t want it, we would just have to be hungry that evening! Don’t get me wrong, depending on what it is that is left over, I may not want to eat it more than just one day left over. Unless it is a protein, llike chicken or turkey, sausage or seasoned ground meat not mixed with anything. I have gotten pretty creative with completely changing a leftover meal into a whole new meal using the leftovers! It’s part of my “Create-A-Meal” deal! One thing that has actually stuck with my two older children… Which I laugh at to hear them actually say they had to do what Mom does sometimes by creating a meal out of whatever they have on hand or someone brings over!  The base of most of the “Create-A-Meal” ideas are: Meat, Tomatoes, Pasta or Rice, Beans & a type of Sauce if you have it. Anything extra is a bonus! It may not always be what you want but guess what… You won’t starve if you have it!!! 🙂

One way I like to get into a create a meal flow is to view multiple recipes and basically take either an idea or an ingredient from all the different recipes… Sometimes it’s by choice and sometimes it’s based off of what I have or don’t have to work with. Either way, all things are possible if you have your faith in Christ in your life at all times! Hence why we bless the food we prepare and eat and also bless the cook(s).

Philippians 4:13 I can do all things through Christ

I am so happy that our daughter loves to eat fruits and veggies!!! #HappyMommyMoment 🙂  So I try to have a variety of good fruits and veggies to snack on and prepare for meals. I don’t want the selection to get boring so I’m always open to try something different. Not sure if she liked asparagus or not, I stepped outside the box and made some asparagus for dinner with a back up plan to fix her some brocolli. I know that I had not always had the best experience with eating asparagus but I also understand certain foods have potential to be good if prepared the right way (brussel sprouts & eggplant to name a couple). During my trip the other day to Sprouts Farmers Market with my friend, sister in Christ and fitness & mentor Amia Freeman, with Sunday dinner prep  in mind… I picked up a fresh bunch of asparagus, a bag of Sprouts baby medley potatoes (which had purple, red and yellow potatoes). My plan was to prepare those two sides with a salmon steak. Not knowing exactly what the outcome of this meal was going to be, I told myself it was going to be awesomesauce before I even prepared it! Here’s a pic of the outcome:

Honey Glazed Salmon, Garlic Butter Asparagus & Roasted Baby Potatoes Medley

Honey Glazed Salmon, Garlic Butter Asparagus & Roasted Baby Potatoes Medley

I must say that I really love cooking/baking with lots of colors and lots of flavor. But, I do not use much salt, if any at all. When I do use salt, I just use a little sprinkle of sea salt. When I cook, I really don’t like to “measure” stuff which can make it a little difficult to tell someone how to make it if they want to. I’ve learnd to guesstimate what I use and tell others to use according to how they want it to taste.

So, here is what I did & used to prepare this meal… First:

Thawed & rinsed. Place skin side down on pan. Dropped butter pieces on top & sprinkled Mrs. Dash, Italian seasoning & a dash of smoked paparika. Place in over heated at 400 degrees til butter melted. While in oven, I mixed equal parts of honey & ketchup(yes, ketchup..lol) Mix enough according to how much you want on the salmon. Removed from oven & spread mixture over salmon & returned to oven til done. Flaked when forked! :-)

Thawed & rinsed. Place skin side down on pan. Dropped butter pieces on top & sprinkled Mrs. Dash, Italian seasoning & a dash of smoked paparika. Place in over heated at 400 degrees til butter melted. While in oven, I mixed equal parts of honey & ketchup(yes, ketchup..lol) Mix enough according to how much you want on the salmon. The taste was actually very good! I had no  idea how that concoction was going to taste! Lol! Removed from oven & spread mixture over salmon & returned to oven til done. Flaked when forked! 🙂

Next… ( I didn’t necessarily go in this order but it all got done.)

Baby potatoes were cut into quarters to make wedges. Tossed in a mixture of almost equeal parts.. Red Wine Vinegar & Coconut Oil ( I was out of EVOO). I used a little more Red Wine Vinegar to Coconut Oil. Wisk in some Mrs. Dash, Italian Seasoning (salt & pepper if you like). Toss potatoes in mixture, then place on a lightly oiled cookie sheet which you can line with foil for easy clean up..(but save the mixture!) Bake in oven at 400 degrees for about 30 minutes (depending on size of wedges cut). Remove from oven & toss in mixture again. Place back in the oven until done. These were very flavorful!!! :-)

Baby potatoes were cut into quarters to make wedges. Tossed in a mixture of almost equeal parts.. Red Wine Vinegar & Coconut Oil ( I was out of EVOO). I used a little more Red Wine Vinegar to Coconut Oil. Wisk in some Mrs. Dash, Italian Seasoning (salt & pepper if you like). Toss potatoes in mixture, then place on a lightly oiled cookie sheet which you can line with foil for easy clean up..(but save the mixture!) Bake in oven at 400 degrees for about 30 minutes (depending on size of wedges cut). Remove from oven & toss in mixture again. Place back in the oven until done. These were very flavorful!!! 🙂

Finally…

I used FRESH Asparagus. I read a little tip somewhere that said to "break" the ends off that is tough and chewy instead of cutting. To ensure the really tough end is off, breaking it at it's natural breaking point helps with that. (Interesting...) After cutting & rinsing the asparagus. Melt butter in the pan & add either fresh garlic or I used the Spice World Garlic in EVOO (sold in the jar). Sautee the garlic in the butter just a little bit (don't let it burn!) add the asparagus & cook for about 7-10 minutes.  The taste was amazing!!!

I used FRESH Asparagus. I read a little tip somewhere that said to “break” the ends off that is tough and chewy instead of cutting. To ensure the really tough end is off, breaking it at it’s natural breaking point helps with that. (I thought that was interesting…) After breaking & rinsing the asparagus. Melt butter in the pan & add either fresh garlic or I used the Spice World Garlic in EVOO (sold in the jar). Sautee the garlic in the butter just a little bit (don’t let it burn!) add the asparagus, sprinkle on a little sea salt and pepper while cooking & turning.. Cook for about 7-10 minutes. The taste was amazing!!!

My 8yr old daughter LOVED the asparagus.. And everything else too!!! My grandson who has a texture issue with food didn’t like the asparagus but he loved the Salmon & Baby Potato Wedges!!! My husband enjoyed the entire meal as well… I’m sure he was just happy it wasn’t chicken!!! Lol 😀

Genesis 6:21 And you shall take for yourself of all food that is eaten, and you shall gather it to yourself; and it shall be food for you and them.

Thanks for reading! Hope you enjoyed it & if you give anything a try, please let me know how yours turned out for you! If you tweak anything please share that as well!

God Bless & Take care!!

~Dee~

Finally stepped outside the box…

Big thanks to my sister for pushing me to get my Boot Camp Sessions started!!! I was doing what I do best… Procrastinating and indirectly making excuses as to why I haven’t started promoting Boot Camps in the neighborhood. It’s only been two weeks but I feel really good about it. I’ve even done a Boot Camp Session on a day that I really didn’t feel like it but went out there and did it anyway! According to The Art of Work Book by Jeff Goins everything that has taken place in these past two weeks is just a part of my Calling or Vocation. This particular quote from the book caught my attention:

“If you can Love what you do even when it hurts, then you may have more than a hobby…”

That being read and said… It seems to be pretty obvious that me having a fitness business is way more than just a hobby… Wouldn’t you agree? 🙂

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I would also like to give a big THANK YOU shout out to my mentor Amia Freeman for always having encouraging words for me to give me that reminder of what I am really capable of accomplishing & believing in me! Also, I would like to give a THANK YOU shout out to Brooke aka Brookie, a friend I made thru my mentor at Refresh Summit TN 2014. Although Brooke may look up to my mentor and I for fitness, nutrition & general life coaching, she also is a very positive, motivating and encouraging woman herself. For more info on my awesome mentor & Brooke just click on their links above!

Every since becoming a Sweat Pink Ambassador I’ve come across so many perks that can help with my fitness business and lifestyle. One thing in particular is my very own Sweat Guru website where I can set up Boot Camp Session schedules and get new clients & keep track of them also. Another cool perk is the unlimited FREE pink shoelaces!!! I have been giving a pair to any new clients & we are planning to have a pink shoe laces Boot Camp day in the future! So keep an eye out on the Sweat Guru website for Boot Camp Session scheduling as I learn how to use it! Lol!

Thanks for reading! Be blessed!

3HD

Women need to really focus on being themselves & loving themselves….

So my sister shared this video on Facebook and I thought it was rather touching. Definitely something worth sharing. Even more so worth sharing with my sister’s words to go with it. She doesn’t have a blog but she posts a lot of spiritual, motivational and thought provoking information on her personal page.  My Sister’s Page  <<< Go check her out!! (She said it was okay for me to share her post on my blog.) Hope you enjoy it!

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Ahhhh! Good Morning Beautiful People! YES, YOU!! YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL!!!

This video is a wonderful expression of not only self acceptance, but also self Love. Dig the way he embraced her natural beauty!! It could have only been better if she were his Wife.

I have a saying, ” I didn’t “go” natural, I returned to WHAT was natural.” Natural hair is nothing to be ashamed of and it shouldn’t be a fad for us. Because of forced biased images of “beauty” through history, we have not been as accepting of our own natural beauty…skintone, eyes, facial shape, body structure and hair.

What’s funny is that other ethnicities are hurting and humiliating themselves trying to copy US!!! Mind blowing!! When we never see anyone like us associated with something phenomenal, important or beautiful, we tend to develop the mindset that we don’t belong in those catagories. We start to believe the deception, and alter who we are to feel beautiful and fit in. We have done it for so long my Sisters don’t know how to take care of their natural hair!! Sadly, because of these desires to fit in, be liked/loved/accepted, frustration and confusion, they turn back! Let me clear this up too, I am in NO WAY justifying not taking care of yourself, health and environment. So serious, that is a must people!!

The decision came about, due to enlightenment about “why we do, what we do”. I have wrestled with it several times… in 2003, 2005, 2009 and now. I struggled with not “looking good”, my Spouse accepting it or fitting in…I mean, I am a Cosmetologist!! I was used to keeping my hair and others Fly!! I had an image to uphold!! On the other hand, what was I saying to the denial, shame, unfamiliarity and disatisfaction of the Most Highs design?

Well, this time it’s for good. I love me in all my naturally given AWESOMENESS.
I may not be your idea of beautiful, and your opinion doesn’t bother me if you have a different one. I still love you. I learned in my youth that everyone has an opinion…and it’s just that, an opinion. I don’t take them personal (Powers, principalities and Spiritual wickedness). When you line their thoughts and words up with what the Lord Most High has said, what they say weighs very little on the scale of relevance. The whole satanic family and it’s power, tactics and words can not destroy whats inside, unless you let them in. And if you have…there is a Name that is above ALL names, ok? NOTHING ELSE MATTERS. To those who matter; the Most High, My Husband, My Children and me…I am beautiful, important, wise , intelligent, set apart, Royal, Precious, Rare, joyful, healing, compassionate, helpful, friendly, strong, patient, forgiving, giving, sincere, imperfect, but perfect!!! And that is all that is important to me. Men, Husbands, Brothers…I beseech you, embrace the natural Woman.

The contacts, the weave, the braids, the chemicals, the lashes…and even some make up…they allow us to hide behind unhappiness, discontentment, fear,failures, scars and most of all they create a false image to who we attract. We can never experience real acceptance, joy, happiness and love if we don’t first learn to truly love and embrace ourselves.

Yes, i did it. It was fun, but Family, fun, if we are not careful, can turn into bondage, idolatry and a mental prison. It has it’s place in this industry I make my living in however, I have learned moderation is key. Don’t lose who you are for fame, fashion or fortune. I appreciate my clients and will continue to serve their needs and desires, to the best of my ability. I will always educate them about whatever is better… For them, their families, for the enviornment, for the world. Spirits travels from person to person, generation to generation but we have the power within to break yokes, strongholds and curses!!!!

Living the lie was costly(hair, clothes, make-up, stress, pain) and it wasn’t worth it…but I AM. new creature dying to self.
I am not judging, just sharing, but I pray that these words do that which they were intended to do. If I tag you please share, someone somewhere needs this.

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Now… For my little 2 cents about the video & my sister’s words..

First of all let me start by saying I love how she says, ” I didn’t “go” natural, I returned to WHAT was natural.” That is so true in so many ways. Especially for women. Since so many women (especially african american women with their naturally curly hair) tend to get themselves “fixed” to be how someone else wants them to be or how they think someone else wants them to look. Women hide behind hair color, wigs, weaves & make up entirely too much. For anyone reading this all the way to here: I’m challenging you to not do something you do cosmetically to yourself daily for 5 days!!! Good luck!! Come back here to share the results of the challenge! Take care & be blessed!!

My conclusion to reading the book, #BEMORE by Sandi Krakowski

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The conclusion to the book #BEMORE #awesomesauce #empowering #IamMORE #IAmEmpowered #iCried Lol! 😅

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I can’t express how much of this book hit so close to home so many times… I can read it all again & still laugh & cry at the same sections of the book.. It’s sometimes creepy how & when certain things happen in our lives.. There were sections in the book that made me feel like @sandikrakowski was a fly on my wall!! All the way down to us FEELING the same song & having it on repeat.. Before I even read that section mentioning it!

There were topics in the book that made me really think & have a different outlook on certain things..  I shed tears of frustration, sadness, confusion, joy & excitement throughout the book & empowerment at the end.. I already know I’ll shed somemore!! Every time I conquer a challenge or have a breakthrough, it will be a part of me being more!

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(Romans 1:29-32)

*From the book* ~ “Tame Your Tension.. Pay very careful attention to that tension. Many times that is a signal that you are right in the middle of God’s will with the best thing that could ever happen to you right in front of you..”

This is an eye opener & touchy section.. This one smacked me in the head & stuck to me!

Watch out for the enemy trying to distract you!!! One of the words used instead of enemy today is, “Haters”.. Beware of the haters!!! The enemy/hater will make you feel like quitting; you’ll begin to have feelings you’ve never had before! That tension will begin to invade your sleep and even your home & family!!! Take control of that tension & reverse that negative energy from your haters… Let your haters be your motivators!! The more haters I have.. The more empowered I feel.. Yep, we all have them.. We just don’t always know them.. But if you do know them.. Love them for empowering you to BE MORE!!!

*From the book* ~ “God has grace equal to the tension, so stop running, stop stressing, and lean into heaven. Heaven holds your answer: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.””

(Philippians 4:13)

You can get a copy of the book on http://www.amazon.com or go to www.arealchange.com

Thanks for reading!

Peace, Love & Blessings

Helēne 💞🙏💞

You never know what someone is going thru… Be kind..

Almost 24yrs ago, On June 11, 1991 my life changed in so many ways. There was tears of joy (a child was born), a sigh of relief (the child was healthy) and something so small yet so powerful that it would physically change me forever(an epidural to ease the pain of childbirth)… From that day on I would have the occasional lower back ache as expected from getting an epidural.. Ok.. No big deal, right.. So, I do it again 15 months later! Still, no big deal, right..? Until…Sixteen years & five months later… 

Seven years and three months ago, In November 2007… I was walking down the carpeted stairs of our duplex carrying our 5 month old babygirl. Yep, I did it one more time… Third one is supposed to be a charm, right? She was an average weight baby girl. The last 2 steps that I ever so gently slipped on, not falling hard at all, as I got up saying that I was okay & baby was also okay. So I thought I was okay, anyway… The next morning I was not even able to lift up our babygirl due to the excruciating pain in my lower back… So this is when the REAL fun begins with my back pain journey as well as my neck.. That I have managed to hide fairly well. Between then and today, I’ve been thru various physical therapy including acupuncture, kineseotaping, massages & chiropractor visits, two MRIs.. Even a spine surgeon visit for my neck. I’ll never forget the spine surgeon told me that I could have surgery but there’s the chance that I could end up back in the same condition I was in needing surgery in the future. My other option was to suck it up and deal with the pain I was having or try injections. Well… I don’t do surgery unless I absolutely have to in a life or death situation. Although I believe I have a pretty high pain tolerance.. I am not a big fan of needles! I really don’t know of too many people who actually enjoy getting shots with needles. Unless they enjoy the pain or have a fetish for needles or sharp objects entering or against flesh. Yes, I do know they exist. 

I really enjoy working out and living an active fit lifestyle but of course this back issue has caused some setbacks with all that I would like to do with my fitness. I made up my mind to not let my back issues set me back anymore… I’ve become a Beachbody Coach, I’m a Fitfluential Ambassador, a Move More Fitness Ambassador and a Certified Bootcamp Instructor and soon to be a Certified Personal Trainer! It’s all about doing more & being smart about it! (#BEMORE) I continue to workout and I modify and take it easy on my back. I’ve also started doing Yoga. Prior to doing Yoga, I’ve been doing the PiYo workout program by Chalene Johnson, which has been very helpful with my back issues. PiYo also helps keep the body toned up without the high intensity like other workouts. I’ve also been doing some Holy Yoga and lots of Yoga Challenges on Instagram. I’m currently doing about 4 Yoga Challenges… Some days it’s hard to get them all in.. Then I try to play catch up and have lots of poses to do in one day and it’s awesome.. Until my back starts hurting.. I’ve started putting my faith before all things.. That seems to be what is keeping me going in the right direction.. Tomorrow, 2.10.15, I will be getting an injection to help ease the pain that I have been suffering in my back… I’m nervous yet looking forward to the outcome. God willing it will go as I expect and I will be a much happier person! Pray for me ya’ll!!!

Thanks for reading… More to come in the future.. #followme 

Peace & Blessings, Helene...On the beach...